Thursday, 23 December 2010
Merry Christmas from Endless Love
Thursday, 2 December 2010
To invite or not to invite children to your wedding
Saying no to children
If you don't want to have children at your wedding then simply don't invite them. But how do you tell your friends and family that you don't want their children to attend your wedding? Here are a few ideas:
- State on the invitations that the wedding will be adults only
- Call friends and family and tell them in advance of your intention to avoid causing offence. If they are true friends they will understand.
Saying yes to children
- Provide all the children with a goody bag with a few quiet toys to play with, colouring sets, sticker books etc.
- Think about food and drinks for the children. Your venue or caterer will usually supply a smaller version of your menu or a separate menu for children. Most children will be happy with a jug of squash. If in doubt, ask their parents for advice.
- If you have a lot of children attending consider hiring a company like Kidzone who will run a creche for as long as you require to keep the children amused.
Thursday, 25 November 2010
A Royal Wedding
All of the wedding industry is speculating about the design of the wedding, what Kate will wear, who will be on the guest list? Well, YOU could be on that invite list! It has been reported that 100 members of the public will be invited to the royal wedding.
'William and Kate wanted the British people involved at a deeper level than simply holding street parties,' one insider at St James’s Palace revealed. 'They were crystal clear on this from the outset and were delighted when the idea of a random selection was mooted.' 'Those lucky enough to land an invitation will only find out when it drops on their door mat.'
I would absolutely love it if an invitation dropped through my door, what a fantastic experience to actually be there on the day! Hmmmm, what would i wear?!
Thursday, 18 November 2010
Wedding Facts
- Brides carry or wear "something old" on their wedding day to symbolize continuity with the past.
- The "something blue" in a bridal ensemble symbolizes purity, fidelity, and love.
- Tie the knot comes from Roman times, when the bride wore a girdle tied in knots that the groom later untied.
- About 70% of all brides sport the traditional diamond on the fourth finger of their left hand
- The bride stands to the groom's left during a Christian ceremony, because in bygone days the groom needed his right hand free to fight off other suitors.
- Engagement and wedding rings are worn on the 4th finger of the left hand because it was thought that a vein in that finger led directly to the heart. The vein was called vena amori, or the vein of love, and early writings on matrimonial procedure suggested that it would be appropriate for one's wedding ring to be worn on that special finger.
- Queen Victoria started the Western world's white wedding dress trend in 1840 - before then, brides simply wore their best dress.
- In English tradition, Wednesday is considered the "best day" to marry, although Monday is for wealth and Tuesday is for health. Saturday is the unluckiest wedding day, according to English folklore. Funny, it's the most popular day of the week to marry!
- British law states that for a wedding in the UK to be legal the venue needs to be licensed by the local registrar it must have a roof and be moored to its foundations, and must take place between 8am and 6pm, an antiquated law first drawn up before electricity to stop people accidentally marrying the wrong person in the dark!
Thursday, 11 November 2010
Thank you from Mother of the Bride
"As Mother of the Bride I was pleased that I didn’t have to deal with any problems on the day and that all cash payments to suppliers were taken care of. Everything ran very smoothly and I enjoyed the day knowing you were there to make sure it all DID run to perfection.
I would always recommend that a Mother of the Bride has a planner at least for the day. It meant I could really relax and enjoy my daughter’s wedding.
Caroline, you did a wonderful job and thank you."
If you would like to find out how Endless Love could help you plan your wedding please contact us for a free, no obligation consultation.
Thursday, 4 November 2010
Wedding Planning Workshops
Come along to our interactive workshop that will give you the knowledge and tools needed to plan a stress free wedding on budget.
You will go home knowing how to have a stress free wedding, how to save money, how to work with suppliers and much more.
£50 per person or £75 for two
Places are limited | Refreshments will be provided
"The fee for the workshop was small compared to the money we saved"
Kathryn Quinton, Wedding in July 2010
If you would like to know more about the workshops, please call me on 01473 681201 or 07906 705191. You can also contact me via my website www.endless-love.co.uk
Thursday, 28 October 2010
Post Wedding Blues
You spend months or even years planning your wedding so its not surprising that 1 in 10 brides suffer from post wedding blues. With all the wedding talk, planning and thoughts running through your mind its difficult to return to 'normal' life again after your wedding. Here's some suggestions for getting over the post-wedding blues:
- Prolong your wedding celebrations by getting everyone together for breakfast or lunch the day after the wedding
- Invite some friends round to look through your photographs or watch your wedding video
- Get the bridal party together for a meal out - they will all enjoy reminicing about your special day
- Make some time together, plan a special meal or visit the cinema, remember where you used to go when you first started dating?
Thursday, 21 October 2010
Love Quotation
Larry S. Chengges
Thursday, 14 October 2010
Wedding Reading - V
I'll be there my darling, through thick and through thin
When your mind's in a mess and your head's in a spin
When your plane's been delayed, and you've missed the last train.
When life is just threatening to drive you insane
When your thrilling whodunit has lost its last page
When somebody tells you, you're looking your age
When your coffee's too cool, and your wine is too warm
When the forecast said "Fine", but you're out in a storm
When your quick break hotel, turns into a slum
And your holiday photos show only your thumb
When you park for five minutes in a resident's bay
And return to discover you've been towed away
When the jeans that you bought in hope or in haste
Just stick on your hips and don't reach round your waist
When the food you most like brings you out in red rashes
When as soon as you boot up the bloody thing crashes
So my darling, my sweetheart, my dear...
When you break a rule, when you act the fool
When you've got the flu, when you're in a stew
When you're last in the queue, don't feel blue 'cause
I'm telling you, I'll be there.
Thursday, 7 October 2010
Come and Meet Endless Love
The Suffolk Wedding Show
Sunday 10 October
11am-3.30pm
Wherstead Park, Ipswich
Come and meet Caroline and find out more about wedding planners and how Endless Love will exceed you expectiations, not your budget.
You make all the decisions, we do all the hard work!
Thursday, 30 September 2010
Play review: For Better For Worse
The play is set in the warm month of July, present day. It’s the morning of Sheila’s wedding day.
It's the last few remaining hours leading up to the wedding of Sheila, Dorothy and Trevor's daughter. Unfortunately, the morning runs far from smoothly and it's not long before "the best laid plans" begin to spiral out of control. What is wrong with the bridesmaid? Where is the groom? Who is Emmanuel? Why have the emergency services turned up at the door? and is Victoria all she would have us believe?
The play takes you on a journey through a morning of what should be a Brides' happiest day. This comedy has a farcical nature based on the tried and tested structure of mishap, mayhem and misunderstanding.
The play is no longer showing as I attended the final night. However, if it is shown again I'd thoroughly recommend a visit. It's a fab night out for you and your bridesmaids and will get you in the 'wedding' mood!
Thursday, 23 September 2010
Wedding Reading - IV
Today is a day you will always remember
The greatest in anyone's life
You'll start off the day just two people in love
And end it as Husband and Wife
It's a brand new beginning the start of a journey
With moments to cherish and treasure
And although there'll be times when you both disagree
These will surely be outweighed by pleasure
You'll have heard many words of advice in the past
When the secrets of marriage were spoken
But you know that the answers lie hidden inside
Where the bond of true love lies unbroken
So live happy forever as lovers and friends
It's the dawn of a new life for you
As you stand there together with love in your eyes
From the moment you whisper 'I do'
And with luck, all your hopes, and your dreams can be real
May success find it's way to your hearts
Tomorrow can bring you the greatest of joys
But today is the day it all starts
Thursday, 16 September 2010
Endless Love Bridal Fashion Show
Group booking of 4 just £35 in advance (£50 on the night)
Ticket includes a glass of sparkling wine, and all brides will receive a fantastic goody bag!
The evening will be compared by BBC Radio Suffolk Presenter Rob Dunger
11am-3.30pm
You can also buy your tickets from Caroline Gould directly by calling her on 07906 705191 or emailing caroline.gould@endless-love.co.uk
Come and 'Like' our new Endless Love Bridal Fashion Show page on Facebook
Thursday, 9 September 2010
Wedding Reading - III
We are today still dizzy with the astonishment of love.
We are surrounded by affection - by smiles and kindliness, by flowers and music and gifts and celebration.
Yet they enclose a silence where we are close with one another.
My eyes see only you. I hear nothing but the words we speak to one another
This is the day we start out life together.
This is our new beginning.
Thursday, 2 September 2010
Getting the most out of Wedding Fairs
- Look at the stand – is it well presented, are the people well presented?
- Look at the exhibitor list in advance and identify the suppliers you want to speak to.
- Does the supplier ask you questions? Do they seem interested in your wedding?
- Are they offering you a sample of their work?
- Don’t be sucked in by ‘one day only’ special offers. If they are a good company, you should get the best deal whenever you choose to purchase.
- Take someone with you so you can discuss your ideas.
- Take a camera and a notepad – use them!
- Once you have looked around have a coffee, sit down and reflect on what you have seen. Decide which suppliers you may want to have a further chat with.
Most important of all - enjoy yourself!
Thursday, 26 August 2010
Wedding Reading - II
Because to the depths of me, I long to love one person,
With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body...
Because I need a forever friend to trust with the intimacies of me,
Who won't hold them against me,
Who loves me when I'm unlikable,
Who sees the small child in me, and
Who looks for the divine potential of me...
Because I need to cuddle in the warmth of the night
With someone who thanks God for me,
With someone I feel blessed to hold...
Because marriage means opportunity
To grow in love in friendship...
Because marriage is a discipline
To be added to a list of achievements...
Because marriages do not fail, people fail
When they enter into marriage
Expecting another to make them whole...
Because, knowing this,
I promise myself to take full responsibility
For my spiritual, mental and physical wholeness
I create me,
I take half of the responsibility for my marriage
Together we create our marriage...
Because with this understanding
The possibilities are limitless.
Thursday, 19 August 2010
Real Wedding - Kathryn & Lee
This was a strange situation for me as I was a guest as well as wedding planner - I was even one of their witnesses!
The wedding day was glorious and Kathryn and Lee got all of their family and friends involved to make it a very personal wedding ceremony and day for them. Here are the details of their day including those personal elements:
Lee's brother and best man, Leon, played guitar for the bridal party procession down the aisle. Kathryn's chief bridesmaid and flower girl (my daughter, Darcey) entered first, followed by the other bridesmaids, who were escorted by the ushers. Kathryn then entered with her dad.
Kathryn's brother James, along with the registrar, took the ceremony and actually married them. He was fantastic - he made it really personal to them, it was a very moving ceremony. Lee’s sister, Laura read the only reading of the ceremony.
The wedding breakfast followed and then came the time for the speeches. My favourite line was from the groom, Lee talking about his new wife: “I know everyone says this but I will fight them all – I really am the happiest man alive!”
Later in the evening, the groom, best man, ushers and some friends performed a set as covers band 'Kings of Leon Smith'.
Suffice to say, it was a fabulous day that went by without a hitch. Here's a few photographs from the day:
Kathryn and Lee had a fantastic wedding day and I wish them all the very best for their future lives together.
Congratulations Mr & Mrs Smith!
Photographer - Birks Photography
Thursday, 12 August 2010
Wedding Reading - I
Wedding by Anonymous
If you go to a wedding, here’s what it means
No one wears trainers and no one wears jeans
Your best new clothes are all that you wear
And everyone in your whole family is there
Even some cousins that you’ve never known
And the grown-ups all say -
Oh, how much you have grown!?
So everyone’s sitting in one big room
(except Sally and Richard, the bride and groom)
Then all of a sudden things quieten down
And music starts playing and people turn round
And really slowly, Sally walks in
And she’s prettier now than she’s ever been.
She’s a bride and she’s really great looking today
(when normally she looks just kind of okay)
She walks in and stands with her dad for a while
As Richard her boyfriend, awaits in the aisle
His hair is all combed and he’s wearing a tie
And then Sally's mum starts to sniffle and cry.
And now it comes time for the ‘get-married’ part
The Registrar says that we’re ready to start
So she talks and she talks about serious things
Then their friend Chris steps up holding two rings
He gives one to the groom and the other to the bride
Then his girlfriend, Janaki pulls him aside.
Then Sally and Richard kind of look at each other
And another big sniffle comes from Sally’s mother
And Sally and Richard put on the wedding rings
And they talk and they promise each other some things
They promise that they’ll love each other a lot
And help one another no matter what
And be with each other the rest of their life
Then the Registrar says “Now you are husband and wife”.
Then everyone’s in such a big happy mood
And you go to a party with very much food
Where you dance with some grown-ups and drink some wine
And then do a conga-dance in one long line
Till Sally and Richard drive off in a car
and everyone’s thinking how happy they are
So we all yell goodbye and throw handfuls of rice
Then the whole thing is over. Weddings are nice!
Thursday, 5 August 2010
Searching for 'The Dress'
I thought I’d share with you the story of my search for a wedding dress:
I did what every bride to be does, as soon as I got engaged I bought loads of wedding magazines and started turning the page corners of the wedding dresses I liked. A pattern emerged and there was one particular style of dress that I continually went back to – it was similar to the picture below. A strapless corset style bodice with a very full skirt with lots of layers.
The day soon arrived and I took my mum to a dress shop to start trying on some dresses. I picked out several dresses that I liked in the shop – all very similar to the above design. I excitedly went into the fitting room with the dress designer and put on the first dress – it felt good, although the skirt did seem quite big! I went outside to show my mum and look in the mirror – my mum’s reaction was not really what I’d expected – she couldn’t stop laughing! She said I just needed a pair of wings and a wand and I could be on top of a Christmas tree – I looked in the mirror and completely agreed with her. Whilst it was a beautiful dress, the style was all wrong for me and just looked ridiculous. So now I was in a tricky situation, all the dresses I’d looked at were in this style, so now that I’d discovered this wasn’t right for me I was stuck – I didn’t know where to start! Luckily the dress designer said she would take a look around the shop and pick out a selection of dresses that she thought would suit me and my shape. I tried on several different dresses and ended up going back to the first dress that was picked out for me. I still had the fitted bodice and a full skirt but the style was much more subtle and suited my shape. Here’s a picture of me with my mum on my wedding day:
So, I guess the moral of this story is to try not to set your heart on something purely based on a picture. Go to the dress shop with an open mind and be prepared to try on some different styles. Allow the dress designer to have some input too – they fit brides in dresses every day so they really do know what they’re talking about.
Good luck with your search for ‘The Dress’, if you would like a no nonsense impartial opinion when dress shopping contact us to find out how Endless Love could hep you.
Picture credit: Ideal Wedding Dresses
Thursday, 29 July 2010
Come and Meet Endless Love
On Sunday 19 September we will be at the Belstead Brook Hotel at the East Anglia Weddings Fayre between 11am and 4pm.
On Sunday 10 October we will be at Wherstead Park at the Suffolk Wedding Show between 11am and 3.30pm.
Both shows have free entry.
Come and say hello and find out more about the Endless Love bridal fashion show and our wedding planning workshops.
See you there!
Thursday, 15 July 2010
Love Quotation
From the film When Harry Met Sally
Thursday, 1 July 2010
Money Saving Tips
Enjoy!
Thursday, 17 June 2010
Green Wedding Tips
- Use dried flower petals instead of confetti (a lot of venues are now insisting on this)
- Use seasonal flowers in your bouquets and floral decorations
- Use seasonal foods, especially vegetables and use local suppliers to cur down on 'food miles'
- Choose a venue that is local to you and the majority of your guests
- Send your invitations via email and set-up a wedding website that guests can visit with all the information they will need about your wedding
- Consider an environmentally friendly mode of transport to the wedding - a horse & carriage perhaps, an electric car, or even a tandem bicycle!
Thursday, 10 June 2010
Love Quotation
Author Tom Mullen
Thursday, 27 May 2010
Supplier Focus - Fabulous Bags by Libellule
Thursday, 20 May 2010
A Gift For Your Groomsmen
Thursday, 6 May 2010
Love Quotation
Author Unknown
Thursday, 29 April 2010
Venue Focus - Glemham Hall
Glemham Hall is an elegant, red brick Elizabethan mansion surrounded by 300 acres of parkland situated between Woodbridge and Saxmundham in Suffolk off the A12. The present owner Major Philip Hope-Cobbold inherited the house from his uncle in 1994, where he now lives with his wife Raewyn.
Glemham Hall was build circa 1560 by the de Glemham family, who took their name from nearby Great (Magna) and Little (Parva) Glemham. After a varied history, the Cobbold brewing family purchased the house in 1923; it became the home of Captain John Murray Cobbold - founder and first chairman of Ipswich Town Football Club as a professional club - and his wife Lady Blanche, a daughter of the 9th Duke of Devonshire.
There are two main areas for weddings;
The Great Hall (pictured left) for wedding ceremonies and smaller, more intimate wedding breakfasts
The marquee (pictured right) for larger wedding breakfasts.
There is also a church within the grounds of Glemham Hall that can be used for wedding ceremonies and is just a short walk from the main house.
The grand hall can seat up to 100 for a wedding ceremony and 60 for a wedding breakfast. The marquee seats up to 160 for a wedding breakfast and up to 200 for the evening reception.
The venue hire costs from £3,300.
Your caterers need to be booked separately and Glemham Hall will provide you with a list of preferred suppliers.
Contact Glemham Hall on 01728 746704 or email them at events@glemhamhall.co.uk for more information.
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Thursday, 22 April 2010
Apple Green Mood Board
Picture credits:
Shoes - Hasel Bride
Cake - Manolo Brides
Apple Martini's - Manolo Brides
Tie - Manolo Brides
Bride & Groom - The Knot
Flowers - Get Married
Table - Soon to be Wed
Invitation - Lela New York
Dress - Cafe Mom
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Thursday, 15 April 2010
Come and Meet Endless Love
For more information about the event you can email Lynn and Daisy at info@cakeandcatwalk.co.uk or call on 01473 295230.
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Thursday, 8 April 2010
Wedding Planning Workshops - Places are filling up fast!
Come along to our interactive workshop that will give you the knowledge and tools needed to plan a stress free wedding on budget.
You will go home knowing how to have a stress free wedding, how to save money, how to work with suppliers and much more. Below is an example of a mood board:
Everyone that attends the workshop will make a mood board for their wedding, a great keepsake and a great place to start thinking about your theme.
£100 per person or £150 for two
Places are limited Refreshments will be provided
"The fee for the workshop was small compared to the money we saved"
Kathryn Quinton, Wedding in July 2010
If you would like to know more about the workshops, please call me on 01473 681201 or 07906 705191. You can also contact me via my website www.endless-love.co.uk.
Thursday, 1 April 2010
Love Quotation
Author Tom Mullen
Monday, 29 March 2010
Book Review: Bride Ideas and Frock-Ups
I've just finished reading Bride Ideas and Frock-Ups by Sim Canetty-Clarke, Amanda Lockhart and Susannah Frieze. It's a fabulous compilation of wedding anecdotes and quotes; some of which will have you laughing out loud.
This book is the perfect gift for any of your friends or family, whether they've been married for one year or ten, or even if they haven't yet taken their walk down the aisle. It's a great read and will give you a much deserved break from wedding planning.
Here's one of the quotes that made me laugh: "An expert photographer can make a happy couple look like film stars... it's wonderful watching the bride's father, a few years later, idly flicking through the album of photos, the tears gently rolling down his cheeks... as he remembers what the whole day cost him."
Duffer's Guide to Getting Married, 1986
Enjoy!_
Thursday, 18 March 2010
Venue Report - Butley Priory
Once part of a 14th century Augustinian Monastery (dating back to 1171), it later became a much-loved retreat of Henry VIII's sister, Mary Tudor (briefly Queen of France) and her suitor, the Duke of Suffolk. The house is set within an area of outstanding natural beauty in its own 7 acres of meadow and heathland.
As regular readers of my blog will know, I love a long tree lined entrance and Butley Priory didn't disappoint!
There are three wedding options available at Butley Priory;
The 48 Hour Wedding Stay includes accommodation for two nights in the house for up to 9 people. Up to 50 guests can be accommodated for a ceremony and wedding breakfast and an additional 30 can join the party in the evening. Prices start from £2750 for the 48 Hour Wedding Stay.
The resident caterers Spice Outside will put together a menu tailored to your requirements. Three courses start from £31.95.
If you have more guests you can hire the house and a marquee for up to 120 people with the 48 Hour Summer Wedding option from £4250.
Contact Butley Priory on 01394 450046 or email them at info@butleypriory.co.uk for more information.
Thursday, 11 March 2010
Tiffany Style Mood Board
Picture credits:
Engagement Ring - Tiffany
Reception Layout - Pink Cake Box
Bridesmaids - The Knot
Invitation - Wedding Paper Divas
Cake - Elegant Cakery
Flowers in vase - Style me Pretty
Bridesmaids - LI Weddings
Bouquet - Flowers Ichie
Wedding Rings - Tiffany
Monday, 8 March 2010
Wedding Planning Workshops
Thursday, 25 February 2010
Come and Meet Endless Love
Please do come along and meet us. You will be able to find out more about the new services we are launching, including an exciting series of wedding planning workshops.
Tuesday, 23 February 2010
Love Quotation
Lao Tzu
Thursday, 18 February 2010
Wedding Tea Towel
The above invitation is actually a tea towel! What a brilliant idea - your guests have something they can actually use. Prices start from just £2.75 each. Take a look at the Wedding Tea Towels website for more information.
Tuesday, 16 February 2010
The Wedding Voucher Book
I'm delighted to announce that the Wedding Voucher Book is now available for purchase. It is packed full of special offers from a wide range of wedding suppliers in East Anglia, including Endless Love.
The Wedding Voucher Book is available online, you can also meet the team at the EDP Wedding Fayre this weekend at the Royal Norfolk Showground. Check out the website for more information.